– 1/4 of the “Desire your life” series –
February is LOVE MONTH at DTWV. Love is luscious -Lay it on thick baby! Abundance is a mindset and a lifestyle.
While many singles hate the thought of Valentine’s Day, it doesn’t matter if there is a bae in my life or not, I am all in for ‘Vallen’s Time’. If you missed the innuendo, my name is derived from Valentine so I consider it my time! Valentine’s a reminder that we come from love, so we should use any excuse to celebrate LOVE.
Singles tend to want to puke at the sight of couples… secretly because they are low-key wish they had that. Hence, my aim is to get everyone to change their perspective. How about loving or rather desiring your life just the way it is?
Look, I’m not talking about this common “fake it till you make it” type B.S. I mean actually looking at your life and loving it – in all its fullness. Every phase has a its beauty. Cherish it.
Single people want to be in a relationship, because they want to love and be loved romantically. People in a relationship look at their single days with longing; the spontaneity and not having to consider another person at all times.
One of the factors that helps you to step into desiring your life is by you spicing up your spaces. Spice it up, baby! To help you remember how you can spice up your spaces I created a spicy framework called “Explore Your Senses” to get the job done.
‘Explore Your Senses’: (1) Sight, (2) Smell, (3) Sound and (4) Touch.
The most important space to spice up is your mind. The Sapiosexual in me just shivered from my core *Yas, God!* Whew child, lemme come back down to earth to round this up hahahaha. When you are feeding your soul with self-love and self-care and you are in a good place mentally, then your surroundings then to reflect that.
Check out this DTWV episode that delves into all of the above.
You can use these tips to spice up your spaces for a business deals, brainstorm, holidays or a hot date!
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